Erosaf Sat Mar 17, 2012 9:40 am
EATING
Family members all dine together. Servants do not dine with their masters. Being a matriarchal society, the eldest woman or highest ranked sits at the head of the table. Her mate sits to her left. Their heir sits to the head of the table’s right. However this is only the case if the heir is female. If the heir is male, he sits on his father’s other side. In this case, the seat the female heir would occupy stays empty, only ever occupied by a lower ranked guest. If the guest were higher ranked than the family, then the mother of the family would occupy it.
All other children fill the other seats, eldest daughter next to the female heir’s seat.
A formal high court meal is simple enough. If you’re asked if you’d like something and you don’t, refuse the polite way. The way to do do this is to raise the left hand up to your chest with the second two fingers ((thumb being first finger)) touching and sticking out, to have any of the other fingers out is considered very rude. In a none upper class meal, its first in gets the most, but high court meals go via the seating arrangement as to who gets food first.
The Eldae get but one meal a day, a very watery soup, always at lunchtime.
Upper class meals usually start with wine, with a non alcoholic version for the children. It is followed by a platter of seasoned bread, then fruit. Desert is Taakrii ((like a custard tart only with a lid))
When having guests who are human, or Sinae and Sinri, cooked meat is offered to the guests. Humans are a lot more rowdy at meal times and are a patriarchal society. This makes for a lot of disagreements as to who sits at the head of the table at meal times.
Usually drinking water can be drawn from the creeks and wells. When droughts occur, which are rare, they drink wine and ale. Ale, in this case, being aged water and non alcoholic.